From “Let Them” to “Love Them” — The One Shift That Changes Everything

https://www.launchyourrocket.com/masterclass

In this powerful episode of Launch Your Rocket, Jen Smith breaks down the viral “Let Them Theory” — and reveals the missing piece that can truly set you free. You’ve heard it before: Let them not invite you.

Let them forget your birthday. Let them disappoint you. But what if simply “letting them” isn’t enough? What if that freedom everyone’s talking about is actually leaving you emotionally parked — shiny on the outside, but empty on the inside?

Jen dives deep into why “letting them” can protect your peace temporarily, but only love—real, God-centered love—fuels your purpose and launches your life forward. She explores how to move from bitterness to abundance, from self-protection to divine power, and how to finally live the life God designed for you.

00:00 — Introduction: The viral Let Them Theory

01:00 — Why it resonates… but still leaves us stuck 03:00 — The “shiny car” metaphor: When healing looks good but isn’t moving

05:00 — The missing fuel: Love that transforms

06:00 — Why we resist God’s simple solution

07:00 — Invitation to the Free Masterclass (Oct 23)

08:00 — Love vs. Let Them — the truth in Matthew

5:44 10:00 — How unconditional love unlocks peace and purpose

12:00 — What the Bible says about real wisdom

13:00 — Introducing Bible 101 (Free course)

15:00 — How to reignite your dream with Elevate

16:00 — Final takeaway: Let Them is 95% there… but Love Them sets you free

Key Takeaways The Let Them Theory helps you stop chasing—but love helps you start living. Protecting your peace isn’t the same as fulfilling your purpose.

True freedom comes when you fill your “tank” with unconditional love.

God’s wisdom has always been the original blueprint for an unstoppable life.

Do what’s hard (love them anyway), and life gets easier.

🙌 Join the Free Masterclass (October 23rd at 7 PM EST)

From Stuck to Unstoppable: Reignite Your Dream & Live with Purpose 👉 Register here: https://www.launchyourrocket.com/masterclass 

Resources Mentioned Bible 101 — A simple, clear introduction to God’s Word: https://www.launchyourrocket.com/bible101

Join the Bible Study — Monthly storytelling-style study: https://www.launchyourrocket.com/biblestudy

Elevate Waitlist — The 6-week blueprint to launch your life: https://www.launchyourrocket.com/elevate-waitlist

💫 Connect with Jen Smith Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/launchyourrocket

Website: https://www.launchyourrocket.com

 

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